There is a huge difference between personal transformation and just talking and wishing. We can counsel, counsel, pray, and encourage anyone, but they are the only ones who can discipline their thoughts, take the initiative, and set a new direction.
For example, being an optimistic person does not come out of the blue and comes naturally, but rather it is a learned behavior similar to developing bad habits, such as a negative attitude or a rude personality. We cannot prevent unpleasant things from happening to us, but we decide whether they will control us, or we will prevent them from controlling us.
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